How to Truly Experience New York City

I know what you’re thinking: me? Not writing about a National Park or natural space? Weird, right? Well, this week, in one of the many travel groups I’m in on Facebook, someone asked for recommendations for New York City. And after writing all of my favorite spots out for her, I realized, wow, I’ve been to New York a lot and could probably write something about this.

Disclaimer: I am in no way encouraging travel during COVID-19. Please use this as a reference for all trip planning and daydreaming during this time. Thanks!

I’ve visited New York city so many times since I was a kid, I’ve honestly lost count. My first trip there was when I was about 8 years old, and my last one was during my solo road trip this past summer. In between that, it was a mix of New Year’s Eves spent with family in Upstate New York with interspersed day trips into the city, and a cross country train trip I took with my grandma from LA to NYC the year I graduated high school.

So, I think I know my way around fairly well at this point. These are my must-sees, for a well-rounded trip that’ll show you everything this city has to offer.

The New York City Skyline, as seen from the Empire State Building

The New York City Skyline, as seen from the Empire State Building

The High Line and Chelsea Market

The High Line is awesome. Attached to the famous and quirky Chelsea Market, an indoor market with people selling all types of food at established shops, the High Line is an elevated sidewalk above the streets of the city. It’s beautifully decorated with plants and benches, and serves as a small, incredibly unique park above the city chaos.

MoMA and Starry Night

One of my favorite experiences in NYC has been to the Museum of Modern Art. When I visited New York with my grandparents that summer after finishing high school, I was very into art, especially the impressionists and post-impressionists. The one thing I wanted to do in the city was visit art museums, and out of the ones we visited, MoMA will always be my favorite. The reason for this is, on the top floor, lives Vincent Van Gogh’s Starry Night. Now, I had no idea that my favorite painting ever created was housed here, and I almost didn’t go up to the top floor. I didn’t even notice it at first. I was just looking at other famous paintings by other artists I loved, and turned the corner to see a crowd in front of a painting I could only see the corner of. That corner was enough, and it quickly became a highlight of my trip. A stranger took my picture in front of the painting (should’ve known back then I’d grow up to love solo travel), and now it’s one of my top things I recommend you do when you visit NYC for the first time.

Little Italy, NYC

Little Italy, NYC

The Strand Bookstore

The Strand is another super unique thing I experienced on that trip a few years ago. I was a writing major in college, so a lot of city excursions for me throughout those younger years included trips to cool bookstores. The Strand was actually a surprise element my grandma came up with when planning that trip back east. It’s the largest bookstore in the city, and its size is honestly impressive, even if you’re not a big reader.

Inside The Strand Bookstore, NYC

Inside The Strand Bookstore, NYC

The Friends Fountain

Friends is one of the most popular TV shows across generations. During the time of that huge trip after high school, I was big into Friends, so in addition to those museums, I needed to go find the Friends Fountain in Central Park (you know, the one from the theme song). It’s not too hard to find and I’m 90% sure it’s on Google Maps, but you will definitely get a good tour of Central Park while you look.

The Empire State Building

I had to throw some touristy stuff in here. You simply can’t go to NYC without seeing the Empire State Building. And yes, it’s worth the hype. It was on my bucket list for a while to go to the top, so when the opportunity arose, I jumped on it. Sometimes you have to just say yes to things—who knows when you’ll get the chance again? So, I rode the elevator to the top, which was terrifying, but the views are worth it.

Me at age 18, in front of the Friends Fountain in Central Park, NYC (2016)

Me at age 18, in front of the Friends Fountain in Central Park, NYC (2016)

Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty

You thought I’d get through this list without mentioning a National Park. Ellis Island is an incredibly important historical stop. I always make a point to learn about the place I’m visiting when I travel, and since I actually had ancestors come to the states through Ellis Island, this was one of our excursions during one of those early trips to New York. Seeing the Statue of Liberty is a cool experience for travelers of any age, and the ferry ride over will make this a day trip to remember.

The American Museum of Natural History

So, we’ve all seen Night at the Museum, yeah? An absolute classic, according to mine and my brother’s generations. Well, in New York, you can experience the museum for real. The Museum of Natural History is one of my favorite spots in NYC. You can truly spend an entire day here, and it’s budget-traveler friendly because they do have a “pay what you want” option for admission. You can explore all of the regions of the world, and journey into the prehistoric past with the dinosaurs. It’s truly one of the most interesting spots in the city for adults and children, and something no one should miss.

A beautiful NYC sunset

A beautiful NYC sunset

Honorable Mentions:

Chinatown: great food, and a different side of the NYC culture you won’t get anywhere else.

Little Italy: stop here for gelato, food, or just to walk around and appreciate some street art.

Vegan Restaurants:

By Chloe- one of the more famous plant-based spots. Make sure you get their take on the classic Hostess Cupcake before you leave!

Peacefood Café- a great little vegan spot with wifi, fresh food, and good service. They also carry plenty of delicious baked goods, so don’t leave empty-handed!

What you can skip…

There’s really only one thing on this list: Times Square. I absolutely hate Times Square. Maybe it’s because I’ve been so many times I feel like a local, but I personally find it overrated, crowded, and dirty. It’s just a tourist trap full of shops you can find elsewhere in the city. While there are some fun things for kids here (like M&M’s world), it’s definitely not a spot you have to visit to say you’ve experienced New York. But if you’re insistent on seeing it, go for it! Everyone’s opinions are different, and maybe you’ll find a hidden gem there I haven’t discovered yet.

Getting around:

New York is a cool experience for any type of traveler, but I highly recommend not renting a car, or if you’re a vanlifer, driving in at all. Rely on public transport as much as possible, and walk when you have no other option. The Subway is really easy to navigate, and taxis, while more expensive, are everywhere. Plus, it’s not a real trip to the Big Apple if you don’t hail a taxi at least once, right?

A healthy dinner from Peacefood Café in NYC

A healthy dinner from Peacefood Café in NYC

New York City is a bucket list destination for so many people. It’s a unique spot that kind of defines the word “city” for a lot of travelers, and is full of plenty of amazing and incomparable experiences. From history to art to the quirkiness of the city itself, there is so much more to do there than is even on this list—these are just my personal tips. The Big Apple is a must if you’re a city lover, so make sure you don’t miss these spots, and of course, try to find your own hidden gems along the way.